Millionaire matchmaker reveals the seven signs he won’t commit to you

A woman who prides herself on teaching women how to date billionaires has revealed the warning signs that the man in your life ‘won’t commit’. 

London-based Anna Bey, 34, who goes by the moniker ‘JetSetBabe’ online, says classic signs that your man is ‘just not that into you’ include being ‘flaky’ and cancelling at the last minute.

Speaking in her latest vlog entry on her ‘School of Affluence‘ site, Swedish-born Anna, whose approach has landed her a wealthy banker boyfriend, also said that ‘not spending money on you’ can be a red flag, and advised that setting boundaries would help attract ‘high calibre men’.

Cancelling at the last minute

She says: ‘A man is really not into you if he cancels at the last minute, or if he is flaky and ghosts you. 

‘Those type of men are not trustworthy – and it may not even be anything to do with you. 

‘But more commonly they wouldn’t do this to a woman they deeply care for. If a man is being flaky, he’s not valuing you. Remember to value yourself’.

Being inconsistent 

‘A man who is hot and cold is a major red flag, and unfortunately when a man is this inconsistent, many women become more obsessed.

‘This is really unhealthy, particularly if you want a long-lasting relationship – you can’t have this with a flaky man where you are always questioning the relationship.

‘Being unsure of his feelings is a big warning sign. Bad boys are a waste of time’.

Talking to other girls online

‘If he is talking to other girls on social media – even friends – that is a massive disrespect to you.

‘Believe me, if he is really into you, he won’t even be interested in talking to other girls. They’re keeping their options open’. 

Needing space

‘It’s healthy to have some time apart, but when he starts wanting a lot of space away ‘with his boys’ is a red flag.

‘This shows he’s not making you his top priority, and he’s making you the second option after his friends.’

Glued to his phone

‘If he’d rather spend time on his phone than spend time with you, this is another warning sign.

‘Men who are madly in love with their partners will prioritise you and put their phone aside for quality time’. 

Not treating you

‘This may not be applicable for those in a 50/50 relationship, but for those who are not, a man who doesn’t want to spend money on us is a red flag. 

‘Money is a love language and if you are really into somebody, you want to give that person the world.

‘When a man is being stingy with you, it is often a warning sign that he is not sure of his interest in you. It’s not a deal-breaker, but think about how important this is to you’. 

He disappears 

‘If you haven’t heard from him in a while, he may just not be that into you. He won’t take a whole day to respond to you if he’s really into you. 

‘Set boundaries and if you accept this behaviour, you won’t attract high calibre men or be treated how you deserve’.